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Yvonne Larmour

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Unable to Maintain this Blog

Unfortunately I am unable to maintain this blog page from my location in China. There is some firewall in place which prevents access to this site. I am sad to say goodbye to My.Opera as it has been like my mother for blogging. It gently nursed me through my first tentative steps of starting a blog.
Current entries and any future entries are and will be posted at http://www.vonniesspace13.spaces.live.com

Thank you to all my visitors who have dropped into this site for a visit, I hope see you on my other site. Cheers - Yvonne

Kaori Shell

Each surge of the foam laced water brings the tide closer to my comfortable seat on the golden sand. At the edge of the tide line is an uneven wave of debris ejected from the ocean.

Dried pieces of coral, broken and deserted shells are getting pushed closer toward me like an offering from the relentless sea.

The breeze is picking up as I watch the shadow of the palm tree dance beside me on the solid smooth sand.

I want to leave a memento of my visit, but all I have are my prints in the sand. The incoming tide will erase them forever, leaving no trace of me ever being here.

Among the offerings which are being inched toward me, I see a tiny perfect kaori shell. Stretching forward I pluck it from its neighbours and fondle the smoothness between my fingers.

In the future this kaori shell will bring alive the sound of the lapping waves and the rustle of the palm fronds, more vividly than a rarely glanced at photo.

I secure it my pocket as I stand up, glancing longingly around once more before heading back to my bungalow.

Tomorrow I will return and sit in my secret haven, again to ponder the mysteries of this wonderous expanse of nature.

International Labour Day Holiday

May 1st is a 3 day public holiday here in China. By making up 2 days working time before or after the holiday it gets extended to a 5-7 days holiday period. The Foreign Affairs Department of our university generously took all of the expatriates on a tour to Vietnam.
We all set out early from a central meeting point early hours on Tuesday as a group of 18 people, including a local tour guide. This tour guide is a local man who speaks pretty good English. This was a real bonus for a lot of us that are not au fait with the Chinese language.
After 11 and ½ hours of bussing and boating we arrived in Halong City on the coast of Vietnam. This wonderful bay is described as ‘Guilin on the ocean.’ After checking in to our accommodation everyone split up and went exploring. We poked around shops and restaurants before ending up at the evening markets, a heaven for shoppers looking for unusual trinkets.
The next morning after a good nights rest we headed for the harbour where we boarded a boat for a leisurely 4 hour boat cruise around Halong Bay’s limestone pinnacles and grottos. We visited the limestone cave where nature’s stalactites and stalagmites have formed interesting sculptures that aroused our imaginations.
After our tranquil boat ride we headed of to the countries capital city, Hanoi. Once again after being checked into our lodgings we all separated to investigate the city at our own pace. On our 3rd day we toured the city as a group before heading back to Halong City, and embarking on our return journey.
This wonderful 4 day trip was a very welcomed break in the middle of our 18 week term and helped rejuvenate our minds and souls.

A Simple Two Letter Word

There is a two-letter word that perhaps has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that is "UP".
It's easy to understand UP, meaning toward the sky or at the top of the list, but when we awaken in the morning, why do we wake UP? At a meeting, why does a topic come UP? Why do we speak UP and why are the officers UP for election and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report?

We call UP our friends. And we use it to brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, we warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and some guys fix UP the old car. At other times the little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses. To be dressed is one thing, but to be dressed UP is special.

And this UP is confusing: A drain must be opened UP because it is clogged UP. We open UP a store in the morning, but we close it UP at night.

We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP! To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look the word UP in the dictionary. In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4th of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions. If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of the many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP, you may wind UP with a hundred or more. When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP. When the sun comes out we say it is clearing UP.

When it rains, it wets the earth and often messes things UP.

When it doesn't rain for awhile, things dry UP.

I could go on and on, but I'll wrap it UP, for now my time is UP, so.... it's time for me to shut UP.....!

Service with a Smile

With two of us living in the one apartment we are quite amazed that our gas tank lasts for approximately 1 year before we need to get it refilled. This is not an easy task if you are not confident with your Chinese language skills. Usually we ask one of our neighbours to make the telephone call for us.
We did this just last week and our gas bottle was collected and returned promptly, however we have just discovered that we must have a leak as we have used half a tank during this past week.
Last time we had a leak we organised a technician. He came and told us that we had too many electrical appliances plugged in, but did nothing to fix the leaking gas, which we had to eventually tackle ourselves.
This time instead of risking getting the same technician we thought we would try and source a new valve ourselves. We dismantled the hoses and took the valve over to our local convenience store at the campus commercial centre.
The lovely young couple Tong & Ping are very friendly and we manage to have our conversations in a mixture of Mandarin and English. Ping explained that we can’t buy a valve anywhere close by, but can only get them in Xia Shan a 45 minute bus ride away, let alone finding a supplier and the 45 minute return bus trip. ‘But don’t worry’ she said ‘Tong my husband will pick one up before he comes to work this afternoon’.
Their friendly smiles and warm welcomes already had made us loyal customers, but service like this really cements a relationship.
As the saying goes “Sugar attracts more bees than vinegar.”

Assessing a Persons Worth

How do we decide upon a persons’ value when we choose our friends and lovers? Do we choose friends for their physical characteristics, their fashionable appearance, their expendable income, and their popularity amongst their peers?
Do any of these descriptions assist us in gaining a really good friend or lover?
Of course we all admire beautiful, well dressed people. But these attributes do not indicate that these people are better than other people, who don’t possess these same characteristics. Admiration is the key, not envy.
Finding a good friend is a bit like buying a pair of shoes. Often we have to try them on to see if they are comfortable. See if they have the same interests, ethical standards and outlook on life.
Please don’t judge people from their outward appearances, don’t disregard people without getting to know the person inside.
Our campus is made up of wonderful students with a diversity of backgrounds. Every one of them is here for the same reasons, to increase their knowledge for a bright and successful future. Every one of them wants to be independent of their parents’ income.
As the saying goes: Never judge a book by its’ cover.

My Favourite Haven


When Rob and I stroll along a beach front we always revisit our dream of being stranded on a deserted island, of course the one obstacle we would have to overcome is our dislike of seafood.
As we stroll along we fossick for flotsam and jetsam that could be adapted into useful utensils to assist our everyday life on the island. A very creative and humorous past time.
Of course a dream is just that – a dream. But whenever we travel we also look for the one place that we could spend the rest of our lives in, unfortunately we haven’t found it yet but we have come very close with Koh Tao Thailand.
Mountainous Koh Tao perches on a ledge of coral reefs like a sunbathing turtle. The island is famous as a diving and snorkelling mecca thanks to the water’s high visibility, abundant coral and diverse marine life. The island culture is split between dive enthusiasts and beach bums looking for picture-postcard coves. (Excerpt from lonely planet guide – Southeast Asia on a shoestring.) We have been to Koh Tao several times now and find the routine of eating, swimming, reading and sleeping wonderful for slowing down the pace and recharging our batteries.
We stay at the Tropicana resort which has comfortable, economical bungalows near the beach. It also boasts a tranquil restaurant which serves a selection of delicious Thai and Western foods.
The island has numerous shops where everyday items can be purchased, much more convenient than our dreamed of deserted island. So until we find that one special place on our travels we will continue to visit Koh Tao whenever we get the opportunity.
This wonderful island has an entire album of photos dedicated to it on my blog.

Friend or Foe?

Another Term Draws To A Close

This term began 19 weeks ago, another 210 students in 6 different classes. The beginning of any term is a little daunting when you are meeting new students for the first time. But after approximately 4 lessons a teacher begins to become attached to their students.

This term I started off with a class of 34 young men (marine engineers) from far and wide across China. ‘Don’t be late to class’ my superior instructed me. I turned up to a new class room pumped up to front my first class of the semester. I found an empty class room. Panic overtook me, I searched 5 floors of class rooms, and each room already had a teacher and a room full of pupils. Sweaty and distraught I returned to my scheduled room to find 34 pairs of eyes eagerly awaiting their new teacher. Taking a deep breath to calm myself I introduced myself to my new students, they were very courteous and followed as best as possible what was expected of them. Most of these students had never had a foreign teacher before nor had they been exposed to the English language in full. After teaching these young men 3 times a week for 15 weeks I was very sad having to say goodbye to them as students, but hopefully I won’t ever have to say goodbye to them as friends. These guys have such promising futures ahead of them. I envy the surprises that life will unfold for them.

My second new class for the semester was a class of secretarial students, 30 beautiful young women and 4 young men. I walked into to my new class with false bravado and was welcomed by applause and smiles. I taught these young creative adults twice a week for 18 weeks, and every lesson I hurried to class with a bounce in my step. This class was such a pleasure to be with. Every challenge I set them was met head on and they exceeded all of my expectations. Again I was sad to say good bye as their teacher. But satisfied, I know that I touched so many of their lives, just as they have touched mine.

My next 4 classes were Freshmen English Majors. My heart always goes out to the freshmen because I remember the feeling of being the newbie, the feeling of finding a slot among everyone else where you feel comfortable. The environment away from everything they are accustomed to is so alien to them and at the same time they have so much to absorb in their new lifestyle and surroundings. The freshmen students are always respectful and enthusiastic. Most of them have been learning English for approximately 6-9 years but have rarely, if ever had the chance to use the language in situ. In only a few short lessons their confidence has increased and their individual personalities have shone through. I am blessed to be teaching these freshmen students again next term, in which I am eagerly looking forward to seeing them blossom as individuals and as English majors.

I would like to thank all of my students for this enjoyable term, and look forward to seeing you all again in the new semester. I hope all of my past and present students have a safe and happy Spring Festival.

The Moods Of Music

For me different moods invoke different desires for music. A mood of melancholy pleads for sad music which entices sad memories. This helps to remind me that any past hurts were overcome, as will any future hurts.
A cheerful mood urges something I can bop along to while screeching my version of the lyrics along to the tune. (My apologies to my husband and neighbours)
‘The blues” and “Reggae” are great for unwinding, feet up on the coffee table with a glass of smooth red wine in hand.
Classical and Opera music bring tears of agony, as it feels like my ears are bleeding. These are two genres of music you will not find in my collection.
But there is one song that never fails to move me, no matter what the mood. This song brings to me a huge swelling heart, and always leaves me wiping tears from my eyes. This song is the Australian National Anthem.
Maybe this patriotic pride is instilled in us all and everyone cries when they hear their national anthem.

Advance Australia Fair
Australians all let us rejoice,
for we are young and free.
We’ve golden soil and wealth for toil,
our home is girt by the sea.

Our land abounds in natures gifts,
of beauty rich and rare.
In history’s page, let every stage
Advance Australia fair.

In joyful strains then let us sing,
Advance Australia Fair.

Beneath our radiant Southern Cross,
we’ll toil with hearts and hands,
to make this Commonwealth of ours
renowned of all the lands.

For those who’ve come across the seas,
we’ve boundless plains to share.
With courage let us combine,
To Advance Australia Fair.

In joyful strains then let us sing,
Advance Australia Fair.